Quote from Oladosun Joshua Segun on May 6, 2025, 8:44 PM

Yes, Barry Diller, the billionaire media mogul and husband of fashion designer Diane von Fürstenberg, has publicly come out as gay. In a personal essay for New York Magazine on Tuesday, May 6, Diller shared his journey, revealing that while he has had relationships with men, his love for von Fürstenberg has always been genuine. The couple first met in 1974 and had an on-and-off relationship before marrying in 2001.

Von Fürstenberg, known for revolutionizing fashion with her iconic wrap dress, has yet to publicly comment on Diller’s revelation, but she recently paid tribute to her late friend André Leon Talley at the Met Gala.

Their story is one of love, companionship, and mutual respect, proving that relationships can take many forms

Diller acknowledged that his attraction to men has long been known in private circles but feared the reaction of others. Despite speculation over the years, he maintained that his bond with von Fürstenberg was authentic and not a contradiction to his sexuality. His memoir, "Who Knew," set to be released later this month, delves deeper into his personal experiences.

He explained, “Many of us at that time were in this exiled state, so stunted in the way we lived,” he reflected. “I could have declared my sexuality, come out as some others were doing, but I was among the many at that time who were too scared to do so.”

Before her relationship with Diller, von Fürstenberg was married to Prince Egon von Fürstenberg. The exes share two children, Prince Alexandre Egon von Fürstenberg and Princess Tatiana Desirée von Fürstenberg.

In a May 6 Instagram post, she wrote, "I am sorry to have missed the ball because I was in Venice for my project at the Bienale, but I cannot wait to see the show." "Last night when the Met Gala celebrated their show 'Superfine: tailoring Black Style,' I know that Andre was looking down from Heaven and thanking Anna Wintour, Vogue, Andrew Bolton, and the Met for honoring black style," she wrote.

André Leon Talley was a towering figure in the fashion world—both literally and figuratively. As Vogue’s first Black male creative director, he broke barriers and championed diversity in the industry. His signature style, often featuring dramatic capes and luxurious fabrics, made him instantly recognizable.

Talley’s influence extended beyond fashion journalism; he was a mentor to emerging designers and a close confidant to icons like Karl Lagerfeld and Anna Wintour. His memoir, The Chiffon Trenches, offered an unfiltered look at his experiences in the industry, including his complicated relationship with Wintour.

The 2025 Met Gala paid tribute to Talley’s legacy with the theme Superfine: Tailoring Black Style, celebrating Black dandyism and the evolution of tailored menswear. His impact continues to inspire new generations of creatives.

Barry Diller’s memoir, Who Knew, is a candid reflection on his life, career, and personal journey. In the book, Diller shares insights into his rise in the entertainment industry, from launching ABC’s Movie of the Week to leading Paramount Pictures and founding the Fox Network. He also delves into his relationship with fashion icon Diane von Fürstenberg, describing their unconventional love story and his personal struggles with identity and societal expectations.

The memoir offers a mix of Hollywood history, business acumen, and personal revelations, making it a compelling read for those interested in media, fashion, and personal transformation. Who Knew is set to be released on May 20, 2025.