Never downplay your gifts on the altar of humility – make men and women see that you can shine. Do not create a B if you are an all A-person just to look humble and acceptable. Yet, even in brilliance, while demonstrating those gifts, you must radiate humility. When you do, men and women will be attracted to you – and will help your mission. The worst warfare is one against self where a talented person hides gifts in order to be accepted or to avoid being seen as an arrogant person.