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What Could Make You #Believe As A Young Person in Your Nigerian State Government More?

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As a Nigerian young person, what three things could be done to make you #believe more in your nation and especially in your state government? Yes, despite any framework or initiative by any government, if the young people do not connect into it, that framework has no chance.

In other words, if you do not get the youth to believe that their future would be better under whatever you are pushing out as policy, you have lost an unborn opportunity. So, as we look at Nigeria, what could be done to get the young people to #believe, especially at a state level.

Background: During the days of Chief Sam Mbakwe as governor of the old Imo State, my grandmother gave me 25 kobo to contribute towards a donation fund on a Monday morning. I was in primary school and on a Sunday morning, the governor was on TV showing a piece of paper. I knew nothing about what he was talking about but the next day, the headmaster said that the governor needed money to build this and that, and that we should ask our parents and guardians to contribute. It was an involuntary contribution. My grandmother like other Imolites responded, and sent the governor money.

What do you think a government could do to get Nigerians back to that level of partnership? Or better, what can a government do to get your interest to that enviable level which men like Mbakwe, Rimi (Kano), and Jakande (Lagos) demonstrated? #ThreeThings

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Sociological Imagination: Between Idealism and Realism

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The first debate on Realism Vs Idealism was probably traced to 300 BC during the Hellenistic transformation which was greatly impacted by the Greek classical Philosophers. Two notable philosophers of this era, Plato and Aristotle, were said to prepare the grand framework on which much of the modern philosophies are predicated.

Plato found the Academy in Athens where the Greeks and those from faraway nations went to learn the art of doing philosophy. Plato’s school of thought is a top-down worldview where the philosopher is a part of the world’s order. Plato’s philosophy of forms is based on the notion that all material or physical forms have their unfathomable ethereal energies called ‘’the soul’’ which gives substance and meaning to their existence and experiences.

According to Plato, for every horse (physical form) there is a horseness (soul) which makes it impossible for the horse to become a Lion or a Cat. This kind of analysis espouses the belief that human development and experience transcend the scope of personal volition or conscious actions.

Later, Aristotle who used to be a very brilliant and beloved student of Plato departed from the doctrine of his master to found his own path  which evolved to be called the peripatetic school. Aristotle believed since the ideal remains unfathomable, it is better to start the intellectual journey from what is readily accessible and discernible which is the reality or the material forms. Consequently, a bottom-up approach to doing philosophy emerged.

On forms, Aristotle dissects the transmutation of energy from potential to reality through his analogy of the oak and the acorn. The oak tree was a potential energy in the acorn which only manifested under certain conditions.

Since the time of Plato and Aristotle, contemporary theories and thoughts in modern disciplines have developed along the polarities of Idealism and Realism. In Sociology or Social sciences generally, the Idealist Vs the Realist debate persists and has continued to engender intellectual discourse and development of new insights.

The Social realists, also known as empiricists, argue that social life can only possibly be analyzed objectively. A part of this group believes people’s experiences and realities are consciously or unconsciously shaped by a set of beliefs and values handed down to them through the institutions that maintain social order. Emile Durkheim, a French classical Sociologist, describes this as the imposition of social facts.

According to Durkheim, social facts including material culture and nonmaterial cultures such as beliefs, norms, values, rituals and doctrines are external to the human self which then grow to become the coercive force of the human thought, actions and sense of being in Society. In other words, social facts make up the collective conscience of a people which guide their thoughts, inclinations, behaviours and realities.

The social realists believe human nature is expressed, objectified and improved in the course of their interaction with their environment. External events and things such as social facts influence the choices of people as to how they conduct themselves in social gathering and exert their creative energy for economic subsistence.

On the other side of the debate are the idealists who believe that social creation and the continuing social order cannot be simply attributed to social facts even though they are real. According to the idealists, human beings have creative talents and freewill that enable them to deal with their realities or social facts as necessity demands.

For the idealist, the social world is but a conception of the mind; all social events including the imposition of social facts derive essentially from human creative capacity expressed and given meaning through day-to-day social interaction.

However, a sociological model of reconciling the gap between the idealists and realists was offered by C. Wright Mills, a 20th century American Sociologist. He called this doing sociological imagination. According to Wright Mills, Sociological imagination is about ‘’examining the individual biography along the general context of the history of society’’.

Seeing and Approaching the “Burning Bush” in Companies, and Career Promotions to LEAD

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One of the greatest attributes for leadership is authenticity. Another is awareness & observation. Without awareness & observation, we miss opportunities even when they’re glaring.  Let’s take a case study.

He was on Horeb, and saw a burning bush: the bush was on fire but it did not burn up. So he thought, “I will go over and see this strange sight—why the bush does not burn up.”

First, his attention was needed for a very important message. He needed to be consumed by something uncommon. Secondly, his bravery was tested: he went over instead of running away when he saw the burning bush. Then, his God called him “Moses! Moses!” and revealed a mission.

The burning bush was to get his attention and that was critical before a big message was to be revealed. In your career, when you see that “burning bush”, what do you do? Do you run away?

Some people run away while others take the challenges. Yes, take those huge tasks to save that company. Usually, in the middle of that challenge, glory will come. For Moses, it was to lead his brethren; in business, you could be the next CEO, GM, ED, etc!

What is the burning bush before you in that company? Without awareness and observation, you may not even know the company is asking for your attention to be called to #LEAD. Until you can see and approach the “burning bush”, and not run, that career ascension may not come.

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A new French bill requires influencers to disclose use of filters, photoshop; we need this law in Nigeria.

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In France, a new bill has just been passed by the French parliament waiting to be assented to into law by the French executives. The bill in its summary requires social media beauty/wellness products influencers to fully disclose the use of filters in their video or picture posts and also disclose to the public if the picture or video they posted was natural or edited or photoshopped while promoting a beauty product. They are as well legally expected to be honest about whether they have tested and used the product they are promoting or influencing as a social media public figure or influencer. 

This law has taken this form of full disclosure outside the realm of morality to the jurisdiction of legality; now you as an influencer (when the bill is assented to) are legally bound to let your followers and the general public to know if the picture you posted is natural or edited or photoshopped, failure to do that you risk going to jail. 

This bill also aimed at regulating the use of filters and photo-editing software by social media influencers and as well curtailing the lies, bluffs or wild claims by beauty promoters on social media who lie about products and deceive their gullible followers in order to promote or sell the product.

A law like this is more important in the Nigerian social media space today because there is a whole new level of fraud and criminality going on in the Nigerian social media space in the guise of influencing. Product influencers who are mostly celebrities and popular figures in Nigeria always promote products which they do not use and have never used and tell lies about the efficacy of those products. 

We have seen cases of teeth-whitening product influencers who were caught red-handed that they never used the teeth-whitening product they are influencing, rather they used filters and editing apps to whiten their teeth claiming that their teeth got Whitened due to the efficacy of the product. Acts like this have transcended the realm of morality, it should be criminalized. It is fraud to promote a product that you have never used or know if it’s efficient or even safe for consumers and you to lie about it and deceive your followers and those that take you by your words only for them to end up getting scammed and defrauded. 

Body whitening creams and soaps, butt, breast and penis enlargement products and aphrodisiac (kayamata) influencers are all guilty as well of this fraud. It’s been found out that 99% of the influencers who influence body whitening creams and soaps only use filters to edit their pictures and videos so as to have clear and smooth skin in order to lie and claim that it is the efficacy of the products that are working miracles on their bodies.

All ye influencers who engage in acts like these, you are a thief and a fraudster and I’m sure that other countries especially Nigeria will learn one or two from the French parliament so as to pass a bill as well criminalizing acts of this nature.

The easiest way to sell fraud to Nigerians now is through social media influencers; crypto fraudsters and Ponzi schemes always explored this avenue so well to defraud huge sums off gullible Nigerians, this is because there are yet to be strict regulations or legislations on social media influencing and advertising, unlike the mainstream media where there are heavy regulations and plethora legislations on advertising. 

Division of properties amongst couples during divorce in Nigeria.

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In divorce proceedings, the two most focal bones of contention amongst the couples are the custody /maintenance of children and the issue of division and settlement of properties, especially jointly owned properties. Who gets what is always one of the major issues tabled before the court during divorces, especially among rich and celebrity couples.

The general rule in the division and separation of properties amongst couples during divorce is that every property acquired by each of the couples is to be added together and they are to be splitted amongst them equally. It does not matter if one of the spouses was the sole breadwinner in the marriage whilst the other spouse is a sit-at-home mom or dad; whatever property purchased whilst the marriage subsist is presumed to be jointly purchased and jointly owned by the couples hence why the properties are to be collated and share amongst them equally. 

Every property acquired during the marriage including real estate, money at hand or in the bank accounts or stocks/bonds or chattels like clothes, shoes, Jewelries, house decorations, bags, (even up to) toothbrushes are presumed to be marital properties; jointly owned and are to be collected/collated together and shared equally amongst the couples in the event of divorce. 

It is important to note that in some jurisdictions, marital properties are properties acquired from the day the marriage was entered up till the day the divorce pronouncement was made by the court; ie properties acquired even while you are already separated from the spouse but yet to be officially divorced are still presumed to be marital properties and jointly owned but in some other jurisdictions, marital properties ends when you have separated although haven’t divorced yet. 

You should know that the trick to put an asset or a bank account where you deposit your earnings during your marriage in your name alone will not disqualify such asset from being considered marital property but there are some instances where a spouse or the court can let one spouse keep a property and not to be splitted even though the property was gotten during the marriage; this property may include a property that is of sentimental value to one spouse. 

The legal strategy where a couple in the event of divorce can keep some of the properties or assets he/she acquired during the marriage separate and personal is through a prenuptial or post-nuptial contract. This kind of agreement to keep some properties separate is to be entered in writing for it to be valid and enforceable in law.

Other forms of properties that may be kept separate although maybe gotten or acquired during the marriage include; 

  1. gifts or inheritances that one spouse received, either before or during the marriage
  2. the portion of certain personal injury awards meant to compensate for the injured spouse’s pain and suffering. 

All property that a spouse pre-owned before entering into the marriage is presumed to be personal and separate property belonging to just that one spouse unless the couples agreed that every personal property that a spouse acquired before the marriage is to become a joint property once they have entered into the marriage. Another way a separate property can become or turn into a spousal joint property is if a separate property gets mixed up or comingled into the joint property; for instance, if the money in a spouse’s separate joint account is transferred into the couples’ joint account, every money in the couples’ joint account is then presumed to be jointly owned. 

Therefore, ownership of the spouses’ personal/ separate property after the divorce will depend on whether the assets are considered one spouse’s separate property or the couples’ marital property.

In the division of marital or joint properties during divorce, there  are basically two different methods applied by the family courts and they are; 

  1. equitable distribution
  2. community property distribution.

In Equitable distribution, the judge will divide all of the couple’s marital property (and allocate their marital debts) based on the judge’s decision as to what is fair, equitable and just to both spouses. The division of the marital properties is based solely on the judge’s discretion as to what is equitable and fair and not on what the couples want. In forming this discretion, the judge considers who shoulders higher responsibilities like keeping custody and maintenance of the children. A parent that keeps the custody and maintenance of the children is definitely going to be giving the lion’s share of the marital property; that according to the judge will be equitable, fair and just to both couples. Whereas, in the community distribution method as has been adopted by some jurisdictions, marital properties are to be divided equally amongst the couples equally i.e. on a 50-50 basis. An equal division of a couple’s community property (and debts) when they divorced.

In conclusion, marriage is a contract and should therefore be treated as such especially in Nigeria so as to avoid some unforeseen bickering and ripping off.  The legal way to protect your separate properties before marriage or even other properties acquired during the marriage is through a legal contract known as a prenuptial agreement but if you skipped getting a prenuptial agreement, a postnuptial agreement may come to your legal rescue.