I watched a video that showed a dog ‘attacking’ a tiger. The tiger ignored the dog for sometime and then fought back. As expected, the tiger went for the kill. The caption on that video read, “This dog must have listened to a motivational speaker”.

A lot of posts and comments are coming up daily on why people shouldn’t listen to motivational speakers or read motivational books. The first time I saw a post like this, I was appalled because I know the importance of motivation in people’s daily lives. Even learning can’t take place if the learner is not motivated. So, why do people all of a sudden turn against motivational speakers?

I don’t really know the answer, but I think I can make some guesses from my observations. From what I gathered, most people believe that motivational speakers misguide people. I won’t debate on this because it is a matter of personal experience. However, it will be worthy to note here that most motivational speakers aren’t experts in what they ‘teach’. They only talk based on their own experience. And by experience, I mean what they have encountered or have seen others encounter, or even feel that others encountered, within their locality. In other words, they only express what they know, and not what is obtainable everywhere. So, it will be wrong for a Nigerian to apply what is ‘taught’ by an American motivator because they operate in different environments with different cultures and values.

Another argument against motivational speakers is that they don’t walk their talk. This argument is as old as man (remember the case of the Pharisees in the Bible). A good example given by most people here is that most motivational speakers advise people to walk away from job interviews because the interviewers were wasting their time. Another matter like this I came across is where a man complained that his wife always talks to women on how to manage their homes while she couldn’t handle hers. Anyway, like we were told in the Bible, listen to their words but don’t do what they do (lol). And like Igbo’s saying goes, “use your tongue to count your teeth” (meaning that you should act according to your discretion).

The last pointer against motivational speakers is that they are sometimes pushy. Most of them give out the air of ‘experts’ and tell their listeners and readers to do things exactly the way they (the speakers) prescribed if they want to succeed. These speakers fail to give their listeners and readers the room to do things differently. This approach of theirs can cause frustration and depression for a lot of their followers because the prescribed methods may just not work for them. By the end of the day, the negatively affected followers will either find out that there are better options or will wallow in their despair. Either way, the motivational speakers lose their fans.

Despite all these things, motivational speakers are still needed. For starters they are the tonics of the mind. Listening to motivational speakers is like taking daily dose of blood tonic and multivitamins so that you will stay healthy. This doesn’t mean that you don’t have blood and energy to move you into action; it only means that you will hardly get fatigued as you carry out your works. Motivational speakers are there to ensure that you don’t lose hope and focus in your endeavours.

Motivational speakers are morale boosters. I have personally experienced this part of them. Anytime you feel down and you listen to good a motivational speaker, you will be surprised at how he will lift up your spirit. Their talks can supply people with the zeal to carry out difficult tasks. They always seem to reach down deep into that part of people that inspires them. They can make their audience see opportunities in their challenges. They make their audience want to act and achieve positive results.

Good motivational speakers heal their listeners and readers. They usually do this by using their stories to make their audience feel that they are not alone in their struggles. They make their audience see that whatever they are passing through is not peculiar to them. Most people who are facing emotional, mental and psychological trauma usually get some relief after listening to speakers that addressed their problems. They inspire people to make changes that will help them in their personal and professional lives. They help people to look deep into their lives and see themselves in a positive light.

Finally, motivational speakers give their audience the feeling of companionship. Every motivational speaker is seen as a ‘friend’ by his audience. They always give people the feeling that they (the speakers) care about them. Being a motivational speaker means one has to open one’s door for constant communication from one’s audience. This duty of motivational speakers has saved a lot of people from harming themselves.

In all, motivational speakers encourage people to act – both positively and negatively. The world needs them. We all need them. But then, we have to sieve through to make sure we are listening to good ones.

When I talk about corruption and its banes in Nigeria, I think I hold a different view and that has sometimes been met with contempt by people. My response, whenever I’m asked about corruption and its solution in Nigeria, is simple and straightforward: ‘The problem of corruption in Nigeria is foundational. To just be throwing a tantrum at corrupt politicians, leaders, companies, youths et al., is like taking the problem from the head. We need to check and correct our fundamental values and ideals as a people because it is by them we do everything we do.’

The majority of people blame the corrupt system; I blame the wacky values that birthed the corrupt system. Some others blame the corrupt leaders; I blame the parents, guardians and decayed society that groomed the corrupt politicians!

What are our governing ideals or precepts as people? I ask.

To rid Nigeria of corruption, we need to start instilling good ideals and God-fearing attitude in our people from the tender age. As a matter of urgency and importance, we must begin to teach people (while they are yet teachable — most especially when they are kids) to stand and live by good precepts, regardless of the decay or anomalies they find in the society. Let’s inform them that they will consistently (yes, they always will) be faced with moral threats but they should always stand their ground, no matter what.

Thus, as these kids mature and grow into adults, our current crop of corrupt adults would be phasing out, and gradually, we would be building society and systems where sanctity is extolled and strength, effort, and intelligence channeled into right ventures.

I recall when I went for a job interview in one of the Asian countries’ High Commission at Victoria Island, Lagos. After scaling their computer-based tests, I was invited for an interview. I had answered a number of questions when one of the interviewers asked me what I could say about the corruption in the country. I just simply gave them the response above. I told them further that it’s not just about leaders; even most of the young lads they see on the street believe that they have to be corrupt before they can survive or achieve anything.

I thought I was speaking sense to my potential employers until I was told that I was yet to answer their questions! No doubt, they wanted me to start shouting and calling names of politicians: the popular thing people do. And this might not be unconnected with my not getting the job later on!

Now, this is not to say that our politicians are not corrupt or that we wouldn’t have fared better if we had had accountable leaders with high integrity in positions of authority, but the issue here is that we are not facing the right direction as far as eradicating corruption in Nigeria is concerned. We can’t only be condemning our leaders when our younger ones — our foundation for tomorrow — are gravely rotting away — value-wise.

Throughout my three decades on the surface of this earth, I have always seen people condemn the government. As one government left and another assumed position, people continued the same lamentation! Can’t we see that this whole thing is not working? Only people of folly would be doing the same thing in the same way, and without desired result, but continue to do it that way!

This piece is a call for us to critically look at the situation of corruption in Nigeria and start tackling it the right way. Posterity will not smile on us if we do not go back to building our moral system and set people’s idea about the way of life, work and wealth accumulation aright.

God bless Nigeria!