Quote from Oladosun Joshua Segun on April 29, 2026, 11:04 AM

For Ray J's sake, he's being open about his sexual life. The singer of "Sexy Can I" recently revealed shockingly that he has slept with thousands of women in his lifetime.

"These are 10,000 different people," prior to elaborating, Ray J stated on the Funky Friday podcast episode from April 24, "It's like at [12,500] now."

When host Cam Newton voiced doubts about the figure, he reiterated his assertion, pointing out that the calculations nearly added up to "sleeping with a little over one-and-a-half women a day for 30 years."

"The math is different because when we're on tour, we're thinking five to 10 a day," in response, Ray J estimated that he had sex with almost 3,500 different people. "three or more" partners at once. "I'm not capping."

Ray J, who has had relationships with Kim Kardashian, Olivia Alvarez, Brittany Pena, and the winners of For the Love of Ray J, Joanna "Cocktail" Hernandez and Connie "Mz Berry" Deveaux, actually said that when he reached five figures, he threw a party at the Booby Trap club.

"I had about 400 or 500 girls that I f--ked with came through, supported," he revealed. "It was a massive parade."

However, the R&B singer believes he lacks the stamina to keep up at 45.

"I can only f--k a thousand more b---hes," joked Ray J, who has been candid about his ongoing health problems following a pneumonia hospital stay in January. "I can't do anymore."

As among all the women he has dated, he has a particular place in his heart for his estranged wife Princess Love, with whom he has a boy named Epik, age six, and a daughter named Melody, age seven. "Nobody" can match the actress from Deadly Getaway, according to Ray J.

"She's a great mom," he added. "She has my kids. She deserves it."